Comments on: The aphorisms of TWD: The third one http://kojasa.wordpress.com/2008/02/13/the-aphorisms-of-twd-the-third-one/ The Essence of Self-Control and Achievement Fri, 05 Jun 2009 01:54:33 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: kojasa http://kojasa.wordpress.com/2008/02/13/the-aphorisms-of-twd-the-third-one/#comment-94 kojasa Sat, 23 Feb 2008 04:31:45 +0000 http://kojasa.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-94 Hey Marit, What you say is so true. Just that little bit of doubt and you start second guessing yourself. Glad to hear it all worked out in the end. Hey Marit,

What you say is so true. Just that little bit of doubt and you start second guessing yourself.

Glad to hear it all worked out in the end.

]]> By: Marit http://kojasa.wordpress.com/2008/02/13/the-aphorisms-of-twd-the-third-one/#comment-72 Marit Thu, 14 Feb 2008 18:54:28 +0000 http://kojasa.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-72 The quick decision method usually works because it is usually the one you know is right for you. Call it gut-instinct. For example; I like change in my decor. I paint my interior often, however, it took a few tries in my livingroom to get the color just right. The funny thing is, I had collected 100'ds of paintchips and I always came back to the color I had chosen first. The reason I did not act on first decision because of self-doubt. I thought others would not like it, I thought the color was too bold, I thought "no one paints their livingroom plum". One day my self said" do it, you know it is right and my livingroom is glorious, yummy plum! (Everyone loves it by the way.) The quick decision method usually works because it is usually the one you know is right for you. Call it gut-instinct. For example; I like change in my decor. I paint my interior often, however, it took a few tries in my livingroom to get the color just right. The funny thing is, I had collected 100′ds of paintchips and I always came back to the color I had chosen first. The reason I did not act on first decision because of self-doubt. I thought others would not like it, I thought the color was too bold, I thought “no one paints their livingroom plum”. One day my self said” do it, you know it is right and my livingroom is glorious, yummy plum! (Everyone loves it by the way.)

]]> By: catherine http://kojasa.wordpress.com/2008/02/13/the-aphorisms-of-twd-the-third-one/#comment-71 catherine Thu, 14 Feb 2008 16:34:10 +0000 http://kojasa.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-71 This way of thinking has actually made me more aware of why things do seem to "just happen". I did not give enough credit to my actions as I should. Happy valentines day! Nigel and I have had some good conversations over the last few days and agree on most. It is funny how we live and think life happenings are completely out of our control. I am glad for this new insight and will be focusing on my actions more often. Thanks! This way of thinking has actually made me more aware of why things do seem to “just happen”. I did not give enough credit to my actions as I should. Happy valentines day! Nigel and I have had some good conversations over the last few days and agree on most. It is funny how we live and think life happenings are completely out of our control. I am glad for this new insight and will be focusing on my actions more often. Thanks!

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